Young Americans Expect Inheritance, but Fear Financial Burden of Elderly Parents

By Zoey Ramirez Sep 8, 2025

While young Americans anticipate inheritance, the fear of being financially burdened by elderly parents’ expenses looms large, a new survey indicates.

A recent survey conducted by Choice Mutual revealed that approximately two-thirds of young Americans anticipate inheriting money, averaging around $335,000. However, the same survey highlights a significant worry among the younger generation - the financial issues associated with their aging parents. Over half of the survey's young American respondents (53%) declared that they foresee their aging parents becoming a financial burden.

Younger Americans are already making financial contributions towards their parents' medical bills, rent, and daily expenses. These factors are causing a shift in how this generation approaches their own financial planning.

For Millennials and Gen Z adults who are dealing with pressures like student loans, housing costs, and inflation, the additional potential expense of their parents' long-term care or funeral costs contributes to ongoing frustration.

The survey also unveiled intra-family tension related to financial preparedness, with one-third of participants admitting to blaming their parents for being financially ill-prepared.

These financial fears raise serious concerns, such as potentially hindering the younger generation's capacity for retirement savings. It also raises the question regarding potential repetition of the same financial burden on their children.

Despite these fears, many young adults still hesitate to plan for their elders' care adequately. Lily Vittayarukskul, the founder of care planning firm, Waterlily, witnessed how inadequate planning for elder care can lead to broken relationships within families.

Underestimating the costs of caring for the aging population and the erosion of parents' wealth due to medical, housing, and end-of-life expenses often increases resentment between children and their aging parents. Some young adults are coping with these stresses by adopting a lax attitude towards savings or spending more freely, assuming an eventual inheritance will cover their needs.

Ultimately, balancing the expectation of inheritance with the potential financial burden of elder care forms a complex challenge for young Americans. This challenge shapes rethinking strategies for handling the wealth transfer, expected to be unprecedented in scale, without adding emotional and financial burden.

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